When the World Feels Heavy: Protecting Your Emotional Energy Without Numbing Out
Over the past few months, many clients have shared a similar experience. They are not personally in crisis, yet they feel exhausted, unsettled, and emotionally saturated. They describe scrolling late into the night, carrying stories they cannot shake, and feeling responsible to stay informed even when it costs them sleep or peace.
They care deeply about what is happening in the world. That care is not the problem. The strain comes from carrying it without pause.
There is an important difference between awareness and emotional overexposure. Awareness allows us to stay informed and aligned with our values. Emotional overexposure happens when we absorb more than our nervous system can process. In that state, the body does not distinguish between what is happening on a screen and what is happening in front of us. It simply registers a threat.
This is where many people begin to experience compassion fatigue or empathic strain. You may notice irritability, numbness, hopelessness, or a shortened fuse. You may feel wired but tired. You may struggle to concentrate or feel present with the people in your own life. These are not signs that you do not care enough. Often, they are signs that you care deeply and your system is overloaded.
Your nervous system was not built for constant exposure to crisis. It was designed to respond to immediate danger and then return to baseline. When the input never slows, neither does the activation.
Protecting your emotional energy does not mean turning away from the world. It means creating boundaries so you can remain steady within it. This might look like limiting how often you check the news, choosing trusted sources rather than constant updates, or setting a clear time to step away from the media. It might mean noticing when your body tightens and giving yourself permission to pause before consuming more.
You can care deeply about the world without abandoning your own nervous system.
Staying informed should not require sacrificing your sense of safety. There is a difference between being engaged and being consumed. When you feel the pull to absorb everything, it can help to gently return to what is within your control. You may not control policy or global events, but you can control how much you expose yourself to, how you respond, and how you care for your body.
Returning to what is within your control can be grounding. You can choose one meaningful action that aligns with your values. You can show up for someone in your community. You can donate, volunteer, vote, or have a thoughtful conversation. You can also choose rest. Rest is not indifference. It is restoration.
When the world feels heavy, steadiness becomes a practice. It is found in small decisions that protect your energy while keeping your heart open. It is found in recognizing when your nervous system needs care just as much as your conscience does.
You do not have to carry everything to prove that you care.
About the Author
Ashma Hakani, LCSW-S is a licensed clinical social worker and the founder of Renewed Hope Therapy, PLLC. She specializes in grief, trauma, anxiety, and relationship issues, providing compassionate, culturally competent, and trauma-informed care. With over 18 years of experience, she utilizes evidence-based approaches to support her clients in building resilience and coping skills. Ashma also offers clinical supervision and mental health education to individuals and communities. Her work is rooted in the belief that healing is a journey, and she is dedicated to walking alongside her clients every step of the way.
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